couples are not in harmony
Whether severe or mild, premature ejaculation would cause sexual intercourse not in harmony. In premature ejaculation, the disharmony even cause dissatisfaction on both sides. Men with premature ejaculation are not satisfied because the sexual intercourse lasted very short time.

Although he's able to achieve orgasm, men with premature ejaculation also feel very disappointed for not being able to give sexual satisfaction to her partner. Especially if their partner expresses the disappointment by blaming the patient.

"Men with premature ejaculation is often stressed, insecure, inferior, and ashamed of her partner. if this condition lasts for long time, it will lead to erectile dysfunction. the couple certainly feel disappointed, dissatisfied, annoyed, angry, and finally experiencing sexual dysfunction such as loss of sexual desire," Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila explained.

Furthermore, they’re feeling afraid or worried every time they have sex. This feeling will only further exacerbate the state of premature ejaculation. If this situation continues, eventually he might have erectile dysfunction.

Women whose couple has premature ejaculation generally cannot achieve orgasm because of immediate sexual intercourse. Disappointment that arise can be turned into annoyance and fear every time they have sex. Further result could be loss of sexual drive and dyspareunia (pain that happens during intercourse).

Premature ejaculation is categorized in different level. It can be divided into three types based on severity, ie mild premature ejaculation, moderate premature ejaculation, and severe premature ejaculation.

Level of Premature Ejaculation


Light Ejaculation occurs after several short friction.

Medium Ejaculation occurs after the penis gets into the vagina.

Severe Ejaculation occurs as soon as the penis touches the outer female genitals. OR 
Ejaculation occurs before the penis touches the outer female genitals.

Whatever type of premature ejaculation experienced, both men and women will feel dissatisfied because the ejaculation occurred within a very short time which means that the sexual intercourse must end.